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Im really not trolling people but...

How do i tell my parents that im......well,pregnant? .what do i do?its getting really big and i cant suck it im anymore.my bf and i didnt plan on it,we were just trying-see what happens..im only 13 and freaking out:''[
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Well,you are gonna have to tell sometime and the longer you wait,the deeper in shit you'll find yourself.JUST TELL.
DangerousPYT posted over a year ago
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Trying to "see what happens?" What the hell happened with responsible sex?
KissOfDoom posted over a year ago
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Yeah.but he's the one who keeps saying to wait:(
TashaMorgan posted over a year ago
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Andressa_Weld said:
Are you 13, right? Why the hell are you having sex? You're too young. I think you should say something like "mom, we need to talk. I made a mistake and now I'll have to deal with the consequences and I hope you can help go through this. I know you will get mad, but please mom forgive me, I'm just a human being and I made mistakes. I'm so sorry mom, but I'm pregnant. Help me to make this kid the happiest in the world. I need your support right now, mais than I have ever needed before. So please mom, don't hate me, because I'm still your daughter and I amor you and I never meant to make you sad."
Then you can ask her to tell your father. And try not to cry, because you are not the victim.

And por the way, good luck ♥
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 Are you 13, right? Why the hell are you having sex? You're too young. I think you should say something like "mom, we need to talk. I made a mistake and now I'll have to deal with the consequences and I hope you can help go through this. I know you will get mad, but please mom forgive me, I'm just a human being and I made mistakes. I'm so sorry mom, but I'm pregnant. Help me to make this kid the happiest in the world. I need your support right now, mais than I have ever needed before. So please mom, don't hate me, because I'm still your daughter and I amor you and I never meant to make you sad." Then you can ask her to tell your father. And try not to cry, because you are not the victim. And por the way, good luck ♥
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dreamfields said:
Well you found out what happened. There's no use in beating you up about it. You need to let both sets of parents know about this. Let's remember your boyfriend needs to take responsibility also.
Maybe a counsoler could help you tell them. The sooner the better. You need to see the doctor to make sure everything is ok with your pregnancy. This is for your health and the baby's.
Secondly, there has to be a decision about the baby. You are to young to care for a baby, so I would look into adoption. There are organizations designed to help girls and women in your situation. They will help make sure you get proper medical care.
You cannot change the past, but you may be able to plan for a better future. Good luck.
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posted over a year ago 
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Its sad that you are the only one with anything to say that wasn't putting her down to the core. Shows how many people have a heart.
Lawli-gagger posted over a year ago
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Yes it is. Why kick someone when thier down. Hope they don't get the same response when they need help.
dreamfields posted over a year ago
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Different not necessarily better or worse.
dreamfields posted over a year ago
adultswimperson said:
You have to tell them sometime, you can't hide it forever por lying.
That's your own damn fault for getting pregnant in the first place and now your going to have to drop out of school or set the baby up for adoption, or likely even get a job, sucks to be you.
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someone_save_me said:
Lolwhore.
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posted over a year ago 
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Are you referring to the girl or the boy?
ivoryphills posted over a year ago
DangerousPYT said:
You wanted to see what happens:a very pregnant 13 ano old chica who will be kicked out of school and end up behind a counter at mcdonalds if she's lucky.
Holy shit,chica!! *assumes you are looking like my icon*
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posted over a year ago 
seki said:
hell what is happening to today teens
i know a 12 ano old who is pregnent and now u....sorry no idea,.,talk ur mom or bf,s mom
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posted over a year ago 
katetekiku said:
Well someday your parents are gonna see a baby bump and get even madder at you for not telling them, so you better tell them now in a joking way. This is how it would go if you don't tell them:
Mom: oi honey, when are you gonna be home?
You: Around 9. Why?
Mom: I saw your test. I'm so proud of you :)
You: What? Your not mad i'm pregnant?
Mom: WHAT?! I WAS TALKING ABOUT YOUR MATH TEST!! BUTT início NOW!!!
This is how it would go if you tell them now:
You: Mom, i'm gonna be on TV!!!!
Mom: OH MY GOD! MY BABY'S A STAR! What show?!
You: 13 and pregnant :3
Mom: O.O
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posted over a year ago 
Johnny1982 said:
what in god's name happen to the world ???
13 and pregnant !!
this is touro shit
get hold of yourself what are you doing making sex that age??
FOR THE amor OF GOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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darkwave said:
OMG! Good luck! You will need!
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BatCountry9000 said:
Okay... just... what the hell? You're 13 years old you're already pregnant? You're not even old enough for sex, let alone babies!

I'm a ano older than you, and I'm still waiting 5 years for sex. Anyways, you better tell your parents, or else some shit will go down.
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posted over a year ago 
Jeffersonian said:
*Sigh* This is why I don't approve of dating below the age of sixteen...just tell her and sign up for Teen Mom while you're at it...at least my best friend and I will have something interesting to watch on TV if you do the latter.
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posted over a year ago 
ShiningsTar542 said:
I don't know what to tell you to tell your parents because I'm not like you, and will/would never be 'cause I'm not a bitch. It's your own problem since you're young to take such a responsibility.
Always girls like you fall in their mistakes as they do before thinking, and then bring with them a huge problem just as yours. All I can say that you are really poor, and the only way to help you is to pray for you. -.- But I think that god won't accept my prayers.





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Hard luck~
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posted over a year ago 
UnkownUN21 said:
Best thing to do is to tell your mum about it, the sooner the better.

I won't start about why you did something so stupid. Sure your bf and you are guilty you know better than to do something like that. But whats done is done, you can't change the past. I would advise you to go and talk to your mum, I'm sure she will understand. If she finds out on her own she will be madder than she will when you tell her.
So don't get worried go tell your mum and she will help you through it all, hopefully.

Good luck~ :)
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posted over a year ago 
Blu-e said:
Oh,thanks god , i don't even have boyfriend. and thanks my mom for warning me.
May god help you.
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2dolphn97 said:
Oh lord.... What did you think would happen?! 13 years old?!!? Tell your mom and dad it's your best bet goodluck sweetie
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ivoryphills said:
Ah, it's so funny to me how kids say they're old and mature enough for sex, yet when they get a baby, they break down crying and say things like "I'm only so-so years old" or "I'm too young to have a kid".
Geez, you'd think with all the warnings adults give you and all the trash TV you see with ghetto women donning multi-color weave bad-mouthing their "baby-daddies" (note: I used frases to both quote the women and emphasize the fact that the men mais likely than not end up being the babies' fathers) you'd know better than to take such a high risk. Welp, what can be down than to talk to the new grandparents about it, weigh the options with your boyfriend who will mais likely than not dump you on the spot, and write the New York bestseller on your life with a new baby and use the money to give your kid a decent life.
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Adults make the same stupid descions as "kids" do. :/
Lawli-gagger posted over a year ago
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Yeah, but the thing is, Lawli-gagger, adults are, well, ADULTS. Meaning they are mais likely to get hired for jobs to take care of their bebês than any 13-year-old girl with a baby and no high school education, and with their bodies stronger than those of teens, they'll be least likely to miscarry and suffer the loss/enjoy the "relief". And dude, really? Only comment on my reply while others say worse to this girl? :-/
ivoryphills posted over a year ago
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mais likely to get a job...awesome! But they are just as able to make the same stupid mistakes as kids do. You can be 50 and not be ready for the child, it comes down to the person. And their bodies aren't per se stronger. A woman in her thirties can miscarry just as well as a 14 ano old. And I commented on your response(and it wasn't just you) because I just had something to say to you is all. It was't an attack ...I avoid all "the other worst" comments because they were pure ignorant. I would get nowhere with them.
Lawli-gagger posted over a year ago
Lawli-gagger said:
I'm not attacking you but "just wanted to see what happens"?

Well, pregnancy can be added to your list...don't forget your STDs.

You need to tell both your parents and his. This will alter so many lives it won't be funny.
Take full responsibility for your actions and care for the child. When you are old enough get yourself a job and please don't leave school.
I know it wasn't planned...I made the same mistake as you(I was "lucky" and had a miscarriage)....but this is something you have to do. I would say abort but you're showing and you're probably too far along.


No one will be happy so don't look for that. Instead show them that you are determined to own up to this but you need their POSITIVE support in this. Same to your BF and his rents.

I wish the best for you babe.
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