What's your opinion?

I say sex before marriage. I'm definitely not waiting.

"Sex before or after marriage." You make it sound like you can only do one or the other.

I was raised to have sex after marriage.

Whatever you decide to do.

Personally I agree sex after marrige. No wonder we have shows like 16 and pregnant and teen mom because people are dumb and have sex before marrige and they get stood up por the boy and have to raise the baby on their own if they get pregnant. Although some teen parents stay togetger and I'm happy for them. Not trying to be rude to people who lost their virginity before marrige but its just my opinion. I'm waiting until I get married to lose my virginity.

it has to be after marriage two people who amor each other should have sex not people who don't....and you have to really trust the person

Definitely after marriage for me.

When it happens, it happens. When I'm ready, I'm ready. I'm not going to vow to not have sex before I'm married when I can't tell the future.

After, if your still in college you have less to worry about por hiring a babysitter or having to take time off classes.

I'm kind of indifferent although I know what my parents want.

Before for me. I don't see the huge deal about waiting until marriage, just use protection or whatever if being worried about pregnancy is the issue. I'm not saying you should go and fuck everyone that looks human, but if you have uncontrollable hormones like almost everyone is bound to have, it'd be better to just go ahead and do it instead of ignoring those annoying urges, with someone you trust at least. And this is coming from a married woman, btw. If it's with someone you love, I don't see why not. But please no one do it as a preteen. I've heard too many times of people doing it from like 10-13, that's just disgusting and whore-ish....

wait till your married.you will be blessed more.I wish I waited.I am married.