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I feel like there is no where to turn. Everywhere I go I hear people talking about me, calling me stupid ugly. I can't take it anymore, even some of my friends are treating me bad. I went to one of myy friends party and we decided to play a game, there was two way to decide who gose first the ugliest or the oldest they chose the ugliest and stared with me. I feel so alone, I've talked to people and still its no help, no one seems to understand how i feel, and i can't trust anyone. I really need help and I feel like if I don't get help soon, i'm going to end up hurting myself. Dose anyone have any websites that could help me or something please? I'm in desparte need of it.

 rose12345 posted over a year ago
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DibLuver25 said:
I was in the same situation you were last year, I turned to cutting and it didn't help at all. Sure it took my mind off the emotional pain, but in reality it was only giving me something to hide. Something mais to add to all the drama. I really don't know what to tell you, but things get better, trust me. I went through the same thing. I really don't have any recources to help you, im really sorry. Maybe you could try telling your friends you don't like it when they do that, and if they continue then I wouldn't be their friend anymore, it's just not worth it. As to deal with the bullies, just ignore them. It may be near impossible to do, but all bullies really want is to see you suffer, why give them the satisfaction? They don't know anything, bullies are just ignorant and closed minded people. Also, maybe you could start doing something you enjoy, like for me I let out my emotions using poesia and drawing. It helped me get it all out without hurting myself. I also learned that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, who are they to judge? People call me crazy for not caring, but I don't really care. Of course it still hurts when I get made fun of, but it's become easier and easier to realize that everyone who judges me for what I look like is a closed minded idiot. I hope this helped, I wish you the best of luck!
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Thank you that helps alot
rose12345 posted over a year ago
azkaban said:
They're obviously not your friends
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yea. i guess not
rose12345 posted over a year ago
_naiza said:
Just tell them to fuck themselves _|_
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That won't work t only maks them talk mais
rose12345 posted over a year ago
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Just don't care, I'm sure, in your school still have people that amor you :D
_naiza posted over a year ago
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yea
rose12345 posted over a year ago
someone_save_me said:
No, I'm sorry... have you told your parents/guardians about this?
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kinda of, not everything, but all they keep saying is it'll get better. but its not
rose12345 posted over a year ago
Shadowmarioking said:
Don't hurt yourself, you'll only make the situation worse. I've been bullied before, and the best thing to do is to ignore what others say. Even better, talk back to them in a way like this:
Bully: God you're so ugly
You: Why thank you, I do look bad today huh? Oh well! *small giggle*
That'll show them that you're not affected por what they say, and eventually they'll stop.
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Alright i'll try
rose12345 posted over a year ago
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Yeah if you act like you don't care then they will stop because they'll realize it's pointless since it has no effect on you
azkaban posted over a year ago
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I agree, if you show them that it doesn't bother you, they'll leave you alone.
taismo723 posted over a year ago
LittleOtaku1 said:
do this to all of them:

t(-_-t)
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lol thats funny
galou_2010 posted over a year ago
narlyvamp1234 said:
dont hurt yourself, it never resolves the problem. i know a website, look up hell correspondence, type in the names of your tormentors and i will get revenge on them for you, dont worry, your grievance shall be avenged.
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alright thanks
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your welcome
narlyvamp1234 posted over a year ago
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uhh it says u will go to hell -_-
reb1009 posted over a year ago
JaseKS said:
I know exactly how you feel. All the guys at my school joke around and say they like me, and it drives me nuts. They taunt me, and I dont talk much, and they wont shut up and leave me alone. You can talk to me anytime.
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Thanks
rose12345 posted over a year ago
chattycandy said:
this maybe
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im not sure but try it
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alright thank you
rose12345 posted over a year ago
Sasume said:
Well I can tell you from experience that whatever happens, there is nothing that demands the absolute worst solution that is irreversible. I'm sad to hear that even your friends won't help you. This might sound cheesy but that truly means that they're not your friends. Real friends won't try to bring you down, they'll support you and help you. Maybe it's time you found new friends? Think about it this way: is EVERYONE really talking bad about you? You make it worse on yourself when you silently agree with the bullies. Why don't you do something you love? Play an instrument, a sport, read a book, listen to music. Try to distract yourself with something fun. If that fails I would suggest see a counselor or something. I may not know you, but I want you to be ok. Good luck!
This website might help:
link
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Thanks
rose12345 posted over a year ago
springely said:
Tell them you don't care, and tell them if you keep bothering you, you will get them in trouble. If they keep doing it, tell your parents, then tell your teachers. You need to show that you don't want them anymore, and you should tell them to go away.
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That's only going to make it harder on me, and if i tell it'll make it worst
rose12345 posted over a year ago
BabyBlud said:
This is a link to a website that shows different links to other sites about bullying and how to handle it -

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However if your friends are starting to bully you too, just to be 'in the crowd' then they are not true friends and you are better off without them.
I can't say whether you're ugly or not as i don't know what you look like, and sure you may not be the prettiest one in the school, but i'm certain there is one aspect of you that is gorgeous. Have you ever thought that these people are bullying you because they're jealous?
You have something they don't and they want it, and to show that they are hounding you to put you down so low you can't even accept yourself. Don't let them.
My conselhos is that you tell your parents, sit them down and explain that because of all the bullying and their 'it'll get better attitude' you feel as though they don't care, that they have no time to help. If bullying doesn't get nipped in the bud once it starts then it can go on for years and years. And it can also lead to death. A dear friend of mine was bullied all the way through school, and on the last ano he'd had enough and drowned himself. Because of that i've always felt the bullies had won. If you start harming yourself, you're showing these bullies that what they are doing to you is working. Try to ignore them as much as you can as they'll get bored and stop once they know their words aren't taking effect. Go talk to your teachers, write letters to the board, ask the headmistress/master to do something. They have an obligation to stop this, i'm sure the school has a no bullying policy, so get them to use it and enforce it.
Hope everything gets sorted for you soon, and you need anyone to talk to i'm only a message away.
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Thanks
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taismo723 said:
I too was bullied. but por this asshole who didn't like me at all for some unknown reason. He said "I hate Arizona cuz it reminds me of Kacey. (me)". And one dia my teacher asked us if we would rather sit with people or alone because we sat near each other for a while. The kid said company, but I said I'd rather die in a hole. Which was very true. Eventually after he moved, I sent him a message on facebook about him being fat. But that is not what you should do.

I adivse you ignore them, and show them that you don't give a shit. they should leave you alone.
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thanks
rose12345 posted over a year ago
invaderlin123 said:
i get this all the time sweety
i have some difficulties on what im obsessed with take yaoi for example me and my friends amor yaoi but they make fun of some of the couples i like.
ad some of my friends dont like yaoi at all and they make fun of me and push me in the lockers and they call me things like gay-lover and ignorant.
then one dia one of my friends in chorus asked me why i like yaoi so much i told her that its what i amor and if she couldnt accept that than that we shouldnt be friends anymore. then i told her how i felt when she called me names and she talks behind my back. she said " oh i understand im sorry" and we both hugged :) all you gotta do is talk things out and tell them how you feel and if they dont accept you for who you are then you should just end the friendship cause its not worth it
thx for listening :D ~lin ♥
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thanks
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np
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