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How do you cope with your parents not liking MJ?

I continue to watch MJ's vídeos online everyday,and I constantly read about him. My dad disapproves of this and tells me "it's unhealthy to obsess over a person." He banned me from watching MJ and leitura about him. If this is in anyway similar to your situation, I was wondering: What do you do to cope with this?

P.S I will forever continue to amor Michael.
 MJMusicRox posted over a year ago
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MichaelsShamone said:
I really don't care what's my parents's opinion about me loving Michael. If I amor him , then that is the most important and well they are actually used to it already , if my dad would be like that I'd be hiding magazines and stuff somewhere and read them secretly ! I really wouldn't let him control me , I mean sometimes when my parents get angry they mention MJ but I think like ''Whatever.'' but you know luckily they Leave me alone ! & I amor him NO MATTER WHAT ! ♥
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 I really don't care what's my parents's opinion about me loving Michael. If I amor him , then that is the most important and well they are actually used to it already , if my dad would be like that I'd be hiding magazines and stuff somewhere and read them secretly ! I really wouldn't let him control me , I mean sometimes when my parents get angry they mention MJ but I think like ''Whatever.'' but you know luckily they Leave me alone ! & I amor him NO MATTER WHAT ! ♥
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peterdaddy said:
My family tried to reel me in too, but after a while they just got used to it and don't really complain about it too much anymore. My sister now even enjoys (although I don't think she'd admit it) looking through all the new pictures I print and even my Dad tells me when he hears stories about Michael on the news regarding the upcoming trial. In all reality, I know they think my obsession with is bizarre, but for the most part they just let me be.
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 My family tried to reel me in too, but after a while they just got used to it and don't really complain about it too much anymore. My sister now even enjoys (although I don't think she'd admit it) looking through all the new pictures I print and even my Dad tells me when he hears stories about Michael on the news regarding the upcoming trial. In all reality, I know they think my obsession with is bizarre, but for the most part they just let me be.
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foreveraMJJFan said:
i just keep listening to his música and collecting mj things, no matter what my family says. Its to the point that they dont even care anymore.My dad even told me one time, "If thats what you like then i aint going to stop you." For me it kinda sucks being in a family that pretty much doesnt like mj with the exception of my mom, my aunt xerez and my aunt lisa.


I only wish that those in my family would take the time to do their reserch on mj and find out the truth...instead of believing the lies about him sprend por the media and that stupid and greedy Dr. Evein chandler.... :(
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 i just keep listening to his música and collecting mj things, no matter what my family says. Its to the point that they dont even care anymore.My dad even told me one time, "If thats what you like then i aint going to stop you." For me it kinda sucks being in a family that pretty much doesnt like mj with the exception of my mom, my aunt xerez and my aunt lisa. I only wish that those in my family would take the time to do their reserch on mj and find out the truth...instead of believing the lies about him sprend por the media and that stupid and greedy Dr. Evein chandler.... :(
posted over a year ago 
reneemonique said:
Before my dad passed everything was fine, he first introduced me to Michael and since then I’ve fallen in amor with who Michael was and still is and not even thought about all the horrible “hate” or “dislikes” that have been said around these past 50 odd years.
I have no further contact with my step-dad or my mother, but they honestly disliked Michael. They didn’t really care to know Mike. He was a misunderstood and a rare person, people couldn’t really understand him, because they thought it was too good to be true. Then they had to ruin it for the people who did understand and hurt him.

I HATED it when they called him a child molester! He was no such thing. He was a genius, so smart and loving.
My mom called him a “paedophile” right in front of my face, and laughed at me, for looking up to a “despicable” sort of person. “He is a disgrace to human kind” I remember hearing.
However, we all know the truth. None of this is true. The amount of people who have been caught on sex-tapes and naked fotografias on the internet and no-one called them; “sick” or “paedophiles”, do they?


He was a complete gentleman. You just have to be true to yourself and try to put them right, some people won’t have it when you tell the truth about the situation. You can’t help that though. Personally, I don’t think that Michael got the respect that he deserves, but the worlds getting there..slowly.
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 Before my dad passed everything was fine, he first introduced me to Michael and since then I’ve fallen in amor with who Michael was and still is and not even thought about all the horrible “hate” or “dislikes” that have been said around these past 50 odd years. I have no further contact with my step-dad or my mother, but they honestly disliked Michael. They didn’t really care to know Mike. He was a misunderstood and a rare person, people couldn’t really understand him, because they thought it was too good to be true. Then they had to ruin it for the people who did understand and hurt him. I HATED it when they called him a child molester! He was no such thing. He was a genius, so smart and loving. My mom called him a “paedophile” right in front of my face, and laughed at me, for looking up to a “despicable” sort of person. “He is a disgrace to human kind” I remember hearing. However, we all know the truth. None of this is true. The amount of people who have been caught on sex-tapes and naked fotografias on the internet and no-one called them; “sick” or “paedophiles”, do they? He was a complete gentleman. You just have to be true to yourself and try to put them right, some people won’t have it when you tell the truth about the situation. You can’t help that though. Personally, I don’t think that Michael got the respect that he deserves, but the worlds getting there..slowly.
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i know exactly what that feels like. :( last ano for Dia das bruxas i wore the military jacket, the luva and the black fedora and my dad made fun of me saying "Hi im michael jackson...come on little girls and boys come to neverland...lets share a bed." It really hurt my feelings, my grandad was laughing but my grandmama knows how much i amor mj and she yelled at my gradad and my dad and they shut up. And one other time one of my uncles friends has this ringtone called mj coração beat, my uncle calls me over and says oi listen to this...it was a coração montitor that beats a couple of times then flat lines. That really upset me...my grandmama got mad about that just as much as i did. Even though she thought he was weird she still respects what my amor for him.
foreveraMJJFan posted over a year ago
music4life13 said:
i don't have to deal with it because my parents actually like him.
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Me too my mom and dad loves Michael :D
Tamar20 posted over a year ago
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Thank goodness :D
music4life13 posted over a year ago
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:D
Tamar20 posted over a year ago
Tamar20 said:
Theres only one thing I want to say in this kind of situation.




Thank god I don't live with my parents :D
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Who u live with?
music4life13 posted over a year ago
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not be noisy ot nothing just asking
music4life13 posted over a year ago
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Yes I'm an adult 22, and I live in apartment.
Tamar20 posted over a year ago
Waterwhip said:
I remember I fell in amor with his música once mais after the school dance. I remembered some of his songs and looked them up. The seguinte dia I went to school a full-blown MJ fan. I was very open about it too. I wasnt afraid to show it. People made fun of me all day. Though it hurt when they insulted him like they were insulting me. I couldnt understand why someone would hate him so much. That evening before I went out to dinner, I looked up his history and discovered the pedaphile stuff but I refused to believe it. That night at jantar I confronted my mother. I said "Mother, I know about the accusations of 1993 and 2005. Its not true, I assure you. He's innocent, believe me! Thats why you and dad tried to stop me from loving him. You thought people would hate me for it!". My mother confressed that night that she didnt want people to give me a bad first impression. In the comunity I was living in, everyone was rich, stubborn, and only cared about what other people thought. I stood out from all them. I was who I was and not who they wanted me to be. I wore jeans and sweat-shirts while everyone else wore formal dresses and dress shirts. My parents were constantly saying how I should stay quiet about him and, just to get them mad, I would at that moment start chirping about how great MJ was. My defiance made me reckless. My mother made me start to cry very hard on Easter por saying loving him wasnt healthy. I started crying and screeched at her "Do you think this is easy for me?! On what planet!? It was my dream to meet this man for my whole life. And now he is gone. It is hard to get through!". My mother never understood me and I dont think she ever will. I know I am not the daughter she wants. I'm not perfect and I dont bother to act like I am like her. I know there are times when she looks at me and wishes I was never born. She makes it obvious. She wont accept who I am and will do whatever nessasary to change me, to mold me into the person she wants me to be. I ignore them. It works best for me.
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victoriousgirl said:
my parents are fine with that they shouldn't band you from watching Michael Jackson because that's you and if you amor Michael Jackson well,YOU JUST amor HIM! so my parents don't care. R.I.P. Michael
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 my parents are fine with that they shouldn't band you from watching Michael Jackson because that's you and if you amor Michael Jackson well,YOU JUST amor HIM! so my parents don't care. R.I.P. Michael
posted over a year ago 
sammiexox said:
My parents amor Michael Jackson.
I was raised on his music
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iluvmj54 said:
...my parents dont like him either (but my mom grew up on his music) and told me to take a break from him...SOO I still coninued and not all parents are gonna like it and i realized that it really isnt healthy to be obssesed over a person...so im with your parents on that one, lol
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yoyojackson said:
My parents like him. And they don't care who I like. (Unless it's Barney, mom would go crazy) But if they hated him, I don't know. Tell your dad I said this. "You problay obess over a person you jerk."
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zanesaaomgfan said:
My family(everyone) loves MJ.
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droberson1104 said:
I guess I'm kinda lucky because my Mom is a MJ fan. HOWEVER, she doesn't quite understand my OBSESSION with MJ. And NOW she has recently discovered that I amor fanpop too. I think my mother is used to and accepts what I call, my MJJ Syndrome. However, my Dad is another story, he tries to be kind and even has nice things to say about MJ, sometimes. But it was a struggle because he doesn't quite "get" MJ and used to make jokes about MJ. But he knows I TOTALLY do get MJ and I will defend MJ EVEN to him. But I try to teach my parents about MJ as much as I can. My Dad is learning things about MJ that he NEVER knew before. I'll make a fã out him yet!!! JK!!! But my Dad doesn't completely understand but he tries to respect my LOVE. Thank God my parents haven't committed me.... yet!!! XD
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 I guess I'm kinda lucky because my Mom is a MJ fan. HOWEVER, she doesn't quite understand my OBSESSION with MJ. And NOW she has recently discovered that I amor fanpop too. I think my mother is used to and accepts what I call, my MJJ Syndrome. However, my Dad is another story, he tries to be kind and even has nice things to say about MJ, sometimes. But it was a struggle because he doesn't quite "get" MJ and used to make jokes about MJ. But he knows I TOTALLY do get MJ and I will defend MJ EVEN to him. But I try to teach my parents about MJ as much as I can. My Dad is learning things about MJ that he NEVER knew before. I'll make a fã out him yet!!! JK!!! But my Dad doesn't completely understand but he tries to respect my LOVE. Thank God my parents haven't committed me.... yet!!! XD
posted over a year ago 
Applehead123 said:
MY mom doesnt relly complain about it that much my dad doesnt relly see me becuz he live in connecticut my step dad sometimes get me mad tho becuz sometimes he say when u give a break only sometimes. I dont even know if my dad like MJ
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posted over a year ago 
Ameerah_Ham said:
well, I go through a bit of pain.. as mostly everybody loves MJ!
But I have to accept it .. :'(
My mum disapproves that I have posters of him on my wall..
she even threw a sketch pad of my MJ drawings.. but she told me that she thought it was too old, she didnt look inside apparently .. I cried on that day.. and I noticed that it was no mais here on June 24th! :''(
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 well, I go through a bit of pain.. as mostly everybody loves MJ! But I have to accept it .. :'( My mum disapproves that I have posters of him on my wall.. she even threw a sketch pad of my MJ drawings.. but she told me that she thought it was too old, she didnt look inside apparently .. I cried on that day.. and I noticed that it was no mais here on June 24th! :''(
posted over a year ago 
ThrillerBabe87 said:
my mom and dad dont like him eather, my mom likes his music, my dad likes his música 2 a little but he doesnt really like him as a person, IT REALLY SUCKS!!!!
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TVcharacters said:
I ignore them..I still have his pics, songs..I still sing his songs..I just don't talk much about him when they're around.
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 I ignore them..I still have his pics, songs..I still sing his songs..I just don't talk much about him when they're around.
posted over a year ago 
MizzMakayla said:
Mine amor him.

But apparently not that much.

I was the only one in my household that actually cried about him passing away...

Everyone else was like "Whaaa????"

And my brother, he didn't even care -_-
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MJfan10009 said:
My parents are getting used to hearing mj's songs coming out of my room, seeing me looking at his videos, leitura about him in the begging i knew they thought it was something i would grow out of well it was a disappointing for them when it kept coming and then my 19 ano old brother says he hates Michael and hes a child molester but my cousins and the there family went to Disneyland my brother went straight to tommorowland and came out cantar we are here to change the world and he sings bad then we come início what he does takes a chuveiro what song does he put black or white when he came out a teased him about it. that's him in the pic the man who says he hates mj when he really does
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 My parents are getting used to hearing mj's songs coming out of my room, seeing me looking at his videos, leitura about him in the begging i knew they thought it was something i would grow out of well it was a disappointing for them when it kept coming and then my 19 ano old brother says he hates Michael and hes a child molester but my cousins and the there family went to Disneyland my brother went straight to tommorowland and came out cantar we are here to change the world and he sings bad then we come início what he does takes a chuveiro what song does he put black or white when he came out a teased him about it. that's him in the pic the man who says he hates mj when he really does
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MJfan10009 posted over a year ago
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My parents don`t really like MJ but I don`t care their lost ! MJ is magic and wonderful !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
jamir21 posted over a year ago
mjjmyidol said:
My parents hate Michael. My dad isn’t as bad anymore and is used to me listening to mj and talking about him but my mum goes ballistic and calls him a weirdo and a freak and she gets so mad at me when I wear mj merch
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Avigayil_Soprno said:
I'm honestly a little bit mean to my dad about it. I have, on occasion, blasted Michael's música right in my dad's face and it has caused countless arguments between us. Recently, though, I've been a bit nicer about it and just retreat into my MJ bubble when the world sucks without mentioning it too much to my dad. But no matter how much we disagree on music, I will always amor my dad.
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