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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my amor for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other dia i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother said " No mais mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted over a year ago
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with you there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps you going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for you in physical form. MJ's there for you in spiritual form. But your family will be por your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that you truly amor him, but don't let that blind you from the people that will be there with you at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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posted over a year ago 
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted over a year ago
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lol thanks! ;)
lucaslover528 posted over a year ago
WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ fãs of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a fã of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a fã of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your amor for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted fã and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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posted over a year ago 
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thanks that really touches my coração
mjrocks13 posted over a year ago
zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I amor my obsession:D
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posted over a year ago 
UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my amor for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that you couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy you one if I knew you :)
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posted over a year ago 
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awww i would buy u one too
mjrocks13 posted over a year ago
zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw or know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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posted over a year ago 
sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to amor MJ...

But loving him mais than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

You did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe you should talk to a psychiatrist to see why you feel this way.
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posted over a year ago 
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted over a year ago
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is mais than one shrink out there. You just need to find the right one.
PaisleyPark posted over a year ago
AimieDawn said:
From knowing other fãs of Michael, I know they have connections to him por his música and his love. But you do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, you should never amor anyone mais than your family. Especially someone you never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I amor Michael, I truly do. You don't have to get every single thing related to him to show how much you amor him. It's about love, not obsession or material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to show your love.

Please get help and try spending mais time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even mais sick to see how many fãs are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so you all approve of loving someone you never even knew mais than your family? Oh whatever.
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posted over a year ago 
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted over a year ago
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted over a year ago
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And you think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but you really think he would've picked a aleatório fã to be there for?
AimieDawn posted over a year ago
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^ Bit harsh...
lucaslover528 posted over a year ago
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