Okay, if some guy is better than your best friend FOREVER, than obviously your "bff" realy isn't your bff. Your bff should always comes first. Your bff should be like a sister not a person you fight with, she isn't your enemy, is she?
If you fight constantally over him, apperantlly you would rather have somebody who you'll maybe spend a ano or two with and after that, you most likely won't have your BFF.
Rember love
Life has chances. Only forgive. Varities of good things come to the good. Everyone deserves a good BFF.
Bros before hos, man. Or in this case, girls before guys. A guy's no reason to break up a friendship.
posted over a year ago
yes i know this but this fight was bad and i amor this guy and idk.. i mean it was not a mouth fight it was hiting. i almost killed my bff over a guy that i love! i had him fight and then she comes and tries to take him from me. it makes me so mad
exactly, me and my friend liked the same guy and we jsut promiced eachotehr that it would break us up as sister bffs and we are still REALLY close friends today!!!!!!
summerlynn1978 is right, actually their all right. friends are right after family, and guys are at the bottom of your list, OKAY, yo guys should give up on him okay.
If you are hitting your friend that is really bad. And in this kind of fight you always pick your friend before a guy because most likely you will break up with this guy in some months and you wont have a bff. so tell me is a boyfriend for afew months better than a bff forever?
posted over a year ago
well this guy and i dated befor and he asked me to marry him and thats what made me brake up with him bcuz i ddnt know what to think of it and now we want to got back with echother but my "friend" is pulling us apart. i rele so amor him. he means alot to me. and she triped me today in the hall @school and i just keeped walking then she ran and jumped on me and errg lol.
i guess we maybe been there but i had it much esayer then you i well went go with him and then best friend went go with him but i didn't amor him
you have to talk with your friend talk it out, if you say you amor him and want to go out with him you should talk with your friend and even do you know how she feels about him?
well i see it this way, its either the guy or the friend. you cant have both and everything be fine and dandy. and if the guy likes both of you, what makes you so sure that he wouldnt cheat on one of you with the other? i think the guys isnt worth it.
Wait, he asked you to marry him and you're only at school? You must be like 16 or under? Obviously he was joking about the marriage then! Seriously, if he really loved you he wouldn't let you fight with your best friend. Chances are you're gonna break up with him sooner or later and then you won't have a best friend. I would ALWAYS choose my best friend over some boy I like/love or whatever. That's what true friends do. Sit down with your friend and talk about it. Stop all this fighting because it's getting you no where at all. I've got a boyfriend at the moment and as much as I amor him if he started to do all this stuff like fancy my best friend then I wouldn't put up with it...No matter how much I like him. I amor my best friend so I would definitely choose her. The reason she's probably fighting back as well is because she's obviously mad, I can't blame her for being mad! But ask yourself, do you really wanna loose your best friend? You've probably known them longer than this boy. So, really, choose carefully or you'll be about to loose someone really special to you.
U shouldn't let guy ruin yr friendship! If u really like the guy, talk to yr friend! If she's so upset, c enxada that guy likes, you, or yr friend! Problem sollved!!!!
Me an my best friend have been fighting over a boy here resently. And i suggest that you guys just need to promise to eac other that you to are mais important then any boy could ever be.
If you truly want to get this guy, just work on it. And never give up. Its totally up to him, whom will he choose. And as for your friend, if she's your true friend, she'll not oppose you but will try to get this guy being honest and she'll not kill the friendship. If she's not, then get ready to handle a real bitch! But in the end, its totally up to the boy... AND you also need to see if the guy's good or not! You can't fight with your friend for an asshole!
