Please help..I cant take the pain anymore...

Hi, I am feeling so bad and empty for the moment and I thought maybe someone of you could help me? (thanks in advance!) So, I was together with a boy for almost 2 months. Previously, he was my best friend for mais than a ano and we were like twins. We looked like each other, had the same character, almost everything was the same. He was perfect. Everything was perfect in our relationship, we knew each other the best. But then suddenly, he said his feelings went away. 5 days before,he said he loved me. We were very comfy with each other, we both had the feeling that we were the ''mr/mrs right'' for each other. However, I cant stop loving him. He's in the same friend group as me but he seems like he ignores me. However, when he broke up he said ''I like you so much and you're so perfect but my feelings went away'' I dont understand this at all.. what would you do? I cant forget him, he meant so much to me and he always will.. but he keeps hurting me that way. It looks like he lost interest. I feel so empty and my coração hurts alot. I never experienced such pain... he's in my school / friend group as well so its very harsh..he keep ignoring me.. (we broke up around 3 weeks ago)
 mai-nyan posted over a year ago
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simrananime said:
Admiration is a short lived passion.......if his feelings went away......and didnt even thought once before breaking...up...that means he was not made for you.....!!!......so cheer up....there are millions of boys...there must be a special one for you too......just think he was not the one...........!!!...and por my suggestion you should ignore him too :P
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DarkJules said:
If he's anything like me, some thing might have happened that he wants to distance you from him, to protect you, or he's afraid that maybe things we're going too perfect and that maybe he should end it before you ended it and hurt him.

If you know his history think back about how his life is or has been and look for something that might have triggered this.

Back in Middle School I had a friend who we were the best, I knew her family and I'd hang out with them on a daily basis, I really liked her, and I had a feeling she like me also. Then one dia I found out I was moving and I start to distance myself from her and ignoring her, because I knew that having something and leaving was mais painful than just being friends and leaving.

So if he's anything like me try to either force him to tell you the real reason, figure out what caused him to start atuação like this, or just try to mover on...
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