Why does amor hurt? Can you be hurt and still love?

I can forgive but i wont forget and that hurts so now I start to think...
 latinlover posted over a year ago
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isabelle_905 said:
Real amor doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real amor is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much mais bearable. amor is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on fogo and makes you do things you would’ve never done was it not for that other person. amor blinds you and makes you see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time.

It’s the absence of amor that hurts; it’s the falling out of amor or not having amor or not having reciprocal amor that hurts.


Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again:

"I've said before, amor doesn't hurt, and if a man hits you once, he will hit you again." ~ Oprah Winfrey
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 Real amor doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real amor is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much mais bearable. amor is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on fogo and makes you do things you would’ve never done was it not for that other person. amor blinds you and makes you see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time. It’s the absence of amor that hurts; it’s the falling out of amor or not having amor or not having reciprocal amor that hurts. Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again: "I've said before, amor doesn't hurt, and if a man hits you once, he will hit you again." ~ Oprah Winfrey
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;( i never knew luv could be so deep
cutegurl211 posted over a year ago
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Is that true
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no idea..never dated before!!!
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jacob4ever57 said:
There are lots of reasons why amor hurts. Maybe you just broke up with someone and you still amor them, or maybe you haven't seen the one you amor in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes you can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. amor will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once you find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)
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 There are lots of reasons why amor hurts. Maybe you just broke up with someone and you still amor them, or maybe you haven't seen the one you amor in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes you can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. amor will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once you find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)
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me at the moment to haha
latinlover posted over a year ago
EverybodyLies said:
all the dang time.
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emo_grl_4eva said:
I know amor hurts and I know what it feels like.
I was in amor with this guy whom I did amor but he let lust ruin it and in a way he did abuse me slighty. I've felt worthless ever since and every time I look at him or someone mentions him it opens up old wounds and I have to hold it together or else i'd break down to the floor holding myself for support. Even though I'm with someone whom I want to spend the rest of my days with I still feel what I felt before and I dont think anything will ever change that. SO when you amor expect pain.
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cutegurl211 said:
so many guys lyk me...........but the guy i lyk,doesnt even bother to look at me or even say hi.....if i smile at him, he makes a face.
it was when he kissed another girl, dat i found out he was already in luv with sum1 else ;(
i almost cry every night beacause of this.
did i HAVE to see them kiss? ;(
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but i really think i still want him..........
cutegurl211 posted over a year ago
angel-of-power said:
amor hurts cause you can amor someone and they will ignor u.
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i totally agree
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juliet_fan said:
i dont know why but amor hurts and you still can amor and hurt, it may not be always true that amor hurts but i'm speaking on experience amor can hurt if it gets the chance.
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I've been in amor with this guy and he pretending as if he was in amor with me for two years. I didn't realize it at the time untill I was siting in my room one night and I called him just to see how he was doing, only to hear his answer that's your reason for call.my reason for telling u this is that when u amor someone no matter how much ur hurting ur amor for that person over come ur pain at time...I let my amor for that person over come my pain.. And feel that's why am still hurting up till this day.
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Deans_Girl said:
amor isnt amor without hurt.

amor is like magic because you are able to experience every emotion; happiness, frustration, pleasure and hurt. with out feeling pain, how do you no there is pain to feel. pain lets us know we have a reason for sorrow, a reason for life and , A REASON FOR LOVE
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felicity1111 said:
a person can break your coração but you can still amor them and its almost imposible to fogive and forget especialy for girls
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TeamSethRocks said:
You can be hurt and still love
i asked this guy out but never got and answer
this girl whos supposed 2 be 1 on of my best friends got dunped and 2 weeks later asked the guy i just asked out
and he said yes
:'(
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ljsb said:
If I like someone and they hurt me i don't forgive them because if they break my coração it still hurts but only if i really liked them...
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lizzietwilight said:
Loving people hurts because you amor them
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cherry7878 said:
amor hurts cuz u use ur coração to feel and theres noway to bounce back from a broken heart
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booklover13 said:
amor hurts because when it doesnt hurt, its the best feeling in the world...so there has to be something to even out all that good :)
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jeftelover said:
ugh!sometimes i hate love!really hurts.
once i started to cry cause my boyfreind
kissed another girl...:(
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autumnstander said:
i know amor dose hurt and yes u can be still in love
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cuddly-pandas said:
Sometimes amor can hurt because you feel bad
things and you amor the person so much, you don't
understand how to deal or control the things you
feel for them.
Of course you can still amor even when you're
hurt. If you really amor the person, you can live
and get through really tough times you experience
and still love.
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Hinata-Snow said:
amor hurts. Period. But amor can happen anyway, that's what makes it wonderful.
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xenriquegrl said:
Yes you can still amor and hurt at the same time. But get the hurt out of you, because it is not good 4 u. por your problem, something serious is keeping u from living. But their's always hope and u will amor again.
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Saku15 said:
There're so many reasons why amor hurts. First of all: When you amor someone and he/she dosen't amor you back.
The segundo most painful thing in amor when your lover goes with an other boy/girl and lies about it.
The third is the break-up. When you don't think anyone but him/her and cries very much.

I was in amor but I didn't feel any of these options.
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sehdt said:
amor hurts when you amor someone but they can not or will not amor you back.
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hellokittykat93 said:
anyone can do anything but it is hard to amor again after you have been hurt
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prity10 said:
amor is a mixture of alot of things and one of them is hurt and pain if u want to expirence amor then u have to go trough the pain amor gives u............ yes u can be in pain and still amor that is only called true amor if u forget ur amor becoz its too painfull then u cant call it love...

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Rachael-111 said:
amor does hurt and u feel that pain in ur coração until u find someone new
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Of course you can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of amor to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to amor no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :)

and Thank God!
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 Of course you can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of amor to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to amor no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :) and Thank God!
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nasiruae said:

no idea..never dated before!!!
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 no idea..never dated before!!!
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sweettomato said:
Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes..
Is what happens in relationship.
And sometimes, it's just too much to continue..
Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up..
But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To amor them still..
Because you both know... You never gonna be strong without each other!
Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait!
and you neither living nor dead without them!
You will give them power to destroy you, but..
You trust them once again... not to show u How painful amor can be!
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 Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes.. Is what happens in relationship. And sometimes, it's just too much to continue.. Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up.. But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To amor them still.. Because you both know... You never gonna be strong without each other! Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait! and you neither living nor dead without them! You will give them power to destroy you, but.. You trust them once again... not to show u How painful amor can be!
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ZarieViana said:
Yeah one can be hurt and amor again coz lost amor must be forgotten no matter how hard it may appear
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cachuira said:
Y dose living zones one hurts so bad
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writer67 said:
true amor doesn't hurt, it breaks down barriers, and it can change many things, if we are willing to listen to your heart. im glad u r able to forgive, as u try to mend ur coração , but it obviously wasn't ment to b , n u r very wise to have made the positive step, the mature step * so try not to think too much, have some time for u, go out with friends, buy urself something, give ur self a new hairdo. true amor is being strong enough to b able to let it , or them go, it may hurt like no tomo, but if it was true amor it will b back, but u will b wiser. a holiday may b on the cards. for amor takes a lot of work, but from two, that are equal, amor is a language all of its own, true amor no words r req, it clicks, so stand proud, your coração does know love. with luck u will find ur soul mate, but let the past go.u r strong enough to let it go, so blooming well done, proud of you * peace be with you)

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