am i the only person who's nevr had a boyfriend?im 14..i just need to know someways on feeling mais happy about my self.

everyday i just think about how i came clsoe to being in a relationship....(long story which i will not tell) but now again i am alone.i just feel like nothing's worth it for me.all of my freinds have had/have boyfreinds and ahve their first kiss.me,nothing.i'm chatty,not too ugly (i hope) but there might be something missing..maybe i just given up trying,and i think is girls which have to try not boys..and im one of those girls who wnat to find someone perfect :(( im not going to post a pic cuz maybe i just get nasty comments..i just need techniques or soemthing to noot feel so depressed -___- thank you *sigh*
 laspanglish posted over a year ago
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skillet_luvr said:
Girl, you are perfectly fine. I'm 16, will be 17 in 2 months, and I have not had a real legit boyfriend. I have not been kissed or been told that someone loved me. I had been told to my face that I'm ugly for like 4 years, 4 grade to 8th. People are douches before they get into high school. Until this year, my sophomore year, I had never been told that I was beautiful. Truth is, Don't give up. You still have a good 70 years left of your life. Don't give it all away just because no one in your middle school is worth it. Find the stuff that makes you happy, focus on that. If you're happy with who you are, other people will be too.
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posted over a year ago 
taytrain97 said:
Haaah. Tell me you're not serious.

I've met a total of three people online that have actually had boyfriends. And they were all older than you.
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posted over a year ago 
IntrepidKeris said:
You need to stop worrying! You can make yourself sick por that, you know. I'm 13, going to be 14, and have never had a boyfriend. I'm completely fine. I've been let down por crushes before, but don't let your boyfriend-depression take over your life. The best conselhos I can give is try to look in the mirror and smile. Also, think about others besides the ideal boy that amor you for who you are. Friends, family, etc.
Smile! :)
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posted over a year ago 
goofiegirl14 said:
i feel the same way sometimes im 13 nd all my friends have had/have bfs and ik its hard but youll find the right guy for you someday and itll be worth not having a bf now! i had the same problem with almost being in a relationship and then not and i know how that all feels but just stay strong! (:
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ColieAnne91 said:
i got my first bf when i was 16. first kiss at 16 as well. so you are fine.
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&& i really doubt your 14 ano old friends have bfs that are going to last for very long.
ColieAnne91 posted over a year ago
emilloman said:
Dont worry it will happen someday but no one usually knows when. I havent even had my first boyfriend or kiss yet and everyone else in my grade has and i feel lonely cuz im the only one so i feel your pain girl.
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posted over a year ago 
xenriquegrl said:
I've never had a boyfriend either but look, you don't have to worry about that, cuz, as hard as it seems, it can riun your youth. Live it to the fullest before you think about adult stuff. Don't worry the right one will come. But while waiting, I always say, do the things that you love!
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posted over a year ago 
jameswilson said:
I felt like this when I was your age - I didn't have a boyfriend til I was 16 and all my friends seemed to have boyfriends. My best friend had been with a guy for like 6 years por the time I got one.

I'm 21 now and have been with someone amazing for 3 years. That girl? She broke up with that dude and is kind of crazy now. Haha

The point is you don't need to be worried about it yet! You're still so young and have mais than enough time to find someone who is right for you. For now try to be happy with the freedom you have to do what you want - enjoy school and know that your time will come!
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posted over a year ago 
shivers-zimmy said:
I'm only gonna say this once, suck it up. I say that in the nicest possible way. I've only had one real boyfriend. I know someone who is like 20 and still hasn't kissed anyone. Even if I've never seen you, I know you're not ugly. I personally don't believe in ugly because everyone is so different. It's what's on the inside that counts. And for future refrence, you don't need to look to find love, or even a boyfriend. It'll come to you at the right time. Just live your life.

~All my best wishes are now flying your way.
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posted over a year ago 
BigHeart14 said:
im 14 too and i never had i boyfriend, and i dont even thinks that somebody ever liked me -..-
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You're 14. There's mais important things in life at your age than boys. I didn't have my first legit boyfriend until I was 16. I'm 21 now and haven't dated since I broke up with him. My best friend is my age and has never had a boyfriend. It's okay to be a little nervous about dating/relationships, everyone has jitters when it comes to that. But as long as you don't let those worries rule your life, you'll be fine. Your life shouldn't revolve around dating.
Rayefire posted over a year ago
Makeupdiva said:
Oh, God, I hate perguntas like these. You're 14 not 40, you have no reason to be scared because you have never had a boyfriend. Teenagers don't seem to realize that they have their whole life to have boyfriends or girlfriends. It's not the end of the world.
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posted over a year ago 
aliselee_lee said:
worrying about boyfriend shouldnt have been the pergunta at all...one should be worrying about the "love"...and at your age you should be worrying about being successful...boys will come running at you once they know how successful you have become in your life and that takes time but believe me it will be worth the wait....
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posted over a year ago 
hamza_7869 said:
i dont mind being your boyfreind

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