I am in amor with Vampire Diaries. However, it is my duty as a fã to not stand aside and watch the writers and the fãs of this spectacular show make the biggest mistake ever! amor is a very passionate thing and no matter who Elena chooses in the end if she chooses stefan..... it will be the biggest mistake she will ever make in her life and for the Stelena fans..... you know I am write and you are probably thinking who the hell is this person Stefan is hot, well i will admit he is pretty hot, but amor depends on passion and how much a person connects and damon and elena have a relationship(besides the sire bond) that i am pretty sure any girl or maybe guy....... would kill for. so if the writers choose the wrong one i am sorry to say but they do not understand amor and that is a shame because this is the perfect amor story.
Stefan is way to nice-nice with Elena! He needs to be himself around her otherwise it is fake and everyone knows a fake relationship never ever works out well. Whenever Elena is around Damon she is happy and Damon isn't afraid to be himself around her. Sure they (Damon and Elena) have had their ups and downs, but they always manage to work it out in the end which proves that their relationship is much stronger than Stefan and Elena's! Stefan never tells Elena not to something, especially when she shouldn't do it. Damon would make sure that Elena would not do anything that could get her hurt.
Another reason is that Stefan can't control himself, he is a danger to the people around him because you never know when he will go off the rails and hurt someone. Damon does get mad and does stupid stuff, but he would never hurt Elena, no matter what!
Another reason is that Stefan can't control himself, he is a danger to the people around him because you never know when he will go off the rails and hurt someone. Damon does get mad and does stupid stuff, but he would never hurt Elena, no matter what!