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Sexytimes?

So this is your typical teenage problem.Should I have sex or not? Ive been dating this boy for 9months and Im deeply in amor with him in everyway. We had talked about having sex, and he said he wants to but he will wait for me to be ready. I dont feel pressured at all. I kinda want to too. I dont want to be labeled as a slut or whore in school. And I want it to be in a romantic place too, but theres not really a place. So I really need some conselhos on what the first time is like.
 tdigirl posted over a year ago
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SilverFanGirl said:
I'm a Christian so wait for marriage. Its way mais special. My mom had sex before marriage and regretted it, please save yourself. If I do get hated or yelled at, I really do not care. I'm just saying what I believe is true, it's the right thing to save yourself for your husband.
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that's what i would do personally, but yeah if your not christian...
Invincible321 posted over a year ago
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It doesn't matter if you aren't christian or not, sex is between one married man and one married woman.
SilverFanGirl posted over a year ago
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No, I believe that I'm just stating that some people don't and if they want to live their lives that way, I have no right to stop them. I agree with everything you said. Well...except for the homosexuality, but that's a different thing all together.
Invincible321 posted over a year ago
Invincible321 said:
Uh... I've never had... uh yeah that. But, I'll do my best for advice..? Um... if you don't feel pressured and you want to and it's not against any of your morals, values or religion, go for it. Why not? Just make sure that you don't get pregnant. This was awkward. Good luck.
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(: thank you sooooo much!
tdigirl posted over a year ago
jester616 said:
Has he had sex before? I ask only because if he hasn't, it might be a little awkward. Otherwise, keep a sense of humor--your body will make some odd noises when you have sex. That's great that you don't feel pressured, and there's no reason for anyone else to know, but even so, you're not a slut or anything just because you enjoy sex.

It's essential that you use birth control because you can get pregnant that first time. You also need to be sure that your boyfriend is healthy too--no stds. You might bleed your first time, but it's different for every woman, depending on your hymen, if you've used tampons, how much experience you've had pleasuring yourself, and so on.

I don't have much conselhos regarding the romantic locale; I just hope you will have a place where you will have privacy and all the time you need to explore and have fun. My first time was great; I hope yours is as well.
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posted over a year ago 
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Both of us are virgins. Thank you so much, that was extremely helpful.
tdigirl posted over a year ago
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Glad to help.
jester616 posted over a year ago
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