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What am i gonna do about this?

My friend,when i wrote on my status about my late mother. She messages me saying,that her sanity is getting affected por sadness and when she was watching something sad. So she says,she can't do anything to help me. Well,at least she could say she's sorry for my loss,like one of my friends did. Of course,she can't do nothing,but still. She wasn't there,when i needed a friend. So,should i stay friends with her? Or not?
 egyptprincess7 posted over a year ago
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para-scence said:
I've gone through something similar; my friend left me when I was depressed and suicidal. It's hard, and I'm sorry for your sadness, and your loss.
I just think you shouldn't worry about her. She's not a true friend if she's not going to be there for you when you need her. Just live your life, and try to cope with your sadness.
But that doesn't mean you can't be her friend. I think it'd be best to just give her some space, and see if she does the same to you. There's just some friends that you're not very close to; I have friends that I can hang out with, but I don't really talk about my problems too. The main thing is to find friends who will listen to you and help you when you need them.
So, maybe just give your friendship some time. Maybe she's going through something too. You guys just may be growing apart. It's hard, but in the end whatever happens is for the best.
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cparty721 said:
Just give her another chanc e and see if she does something like that again
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