wel if u tell ur frend she'll assume that u are hurt and her motives have been achieved. Tell her instead that she is the best teacher cos the same thing she did to u you are currntly returning the favour, even though its a lie. it'll sting her and she'll just apoplise and give in. thats how losers who wanna get a high ego are deflated, i mean your frend.
well at least u know how much percentage she is as freind material for the future which one dia we all will have true friends por ones side, all the way to the top. least she hasnt done anymore than talk. still be her freind just not 100 percent, good luck;-]
Tell her that you know. If she sees you're hurt she will she's sorry and you will be able to tell if she means it. If she doesn't feel bad she wasn't your friend in the first place.
Sit her down and calmly tell her that you've heard her/ someone told you that she's been talking about you behind your back. And if she starts to interrupt you, tell her, "Can you please let me talk first?" And make sure she's willing to listen sincerely. When you finish talking, let her be able to tell her side of the story. Listen to her like how you want her to listen to you. Hopefully after you both have finish telling what needs to be said, she'll apologize for talking about you behind your back. And just to make it better, apologize yourself. Even if that may sound like you shouldn't do so, apologize anyway. Hope this helps, but if it didn't, I'm sorry. :\
