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How can I make the first move?

I really like this guy and we seem to have a lot in common He plays baseball and I play softball and we are both pitchers. We are friends and we text but I usually always end up texting him first (except twice he texted me first). I hardly ever see him in school. Maybe once in the morning but I would only pass por him so I hardly ever talk to him in person (and this would be in the morning before school starts).

I sent him another text yesterday asking him how his game went but he didn't respond yet. I can't tell if he likes me or not or if he thinks we are just friends. Is there any way I can improve our relationship without making me seem desperate or obvious? I want him to ask me out but I just don't feel like waiting and I really want to know if he likes me. I'm in highschool so its one of those kinds of things anyone can relate to.

Any conselhos please? Thanks!
 Prawls8612 posted over a year ago
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I think that the best way to try getting closer to someone is just por being good friends with them.

People always say it, but it's true: be yourself, because there are people out there who will like you for you. It seems that you two are good friends, but I think that you should talk to each other in real life mais often. Texting is fine and helpful for when you can't actually see each other, but good old face-to-face communication is useful as well. Talk about things you do when you're texting, like how his game had gone. Start up aleatório conversations and learn mais about him. Prove to him that you're a great person por doing what you normally do, being there for him, etc.

It takes time and I know you said that you didn't want to wait, but it does take time for relationships like this to grow. None of us can really tell if someone likes another, unless it's dead-obvious. (Or if you're like my best friend, who can tell a lot of things.) I think that, if you're too impatient for him to ask you out, you should make the first move.

It's really scary and nerve-wracking to think about and attempt (trust me, I've been there), but it could be worth it in the end. Build some confidence after you talk to him for a while, and I'm sure that things will go fine. Just keep your head up high, think of the positive, and don't sweat the small stuff. In fact, I wouldn't sweat anything that hasn't even happened, and probably won't.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other perguntas that you may have.
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Thanks for your help! And you are right. Relationships take time to grow. I should be mais patient with this.
Prawls8612 posted over a year ago
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All things take some amount of time, and patience IS good to have. I'm sure that you can do it!
Chibi-Baka3 posted over a year ago
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Did you ask him or did he ask you? Or did you just become better friends?
Prawls8612 posted over a year ago
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