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CrystalMirage said:
I think that you could look at it as depression, but that doesn't mean that it's anything dangerous. Depression can have different kinds of "phases", if you think about it. Having it doesn't mean that something is wrong with you and that you need psychiatric help; there are those that are just feeling down and need some motivation. It's normal for you to be talking to your friends and avoiding your mom, as that's also a stage. I think that you should at least try to talk to her anyway, however. I'm sure that she would be able to help you as well. It's also normal to feel lonely, but I wouldn't count that as depression in your case. I think that, with the crush that you have, you just want to be with him and you feel as if you don't want to be alone anymore. That's perfectly normal; I felt that once before, and I'm sure if you asked some others, they'll say they felt the same way at some point in their lives. I think that this could count for your sadness and "inability to feel happy". Whether or not you think this is depression, don't panic. You're not doing anything dangerous, and furthermore it's a normal phase in life. In order to "fight this off", just talk to your friends and at least attempt to talk to your mother about it. Yes, I know you said that it's awkward, but it doesn't hurt to try things. What I've read here isn't anything dangerous or life-threatening, so I don't think that you need to go to a psychiatrist/psychologist. I don't think that you need a counselor either, but if you believe that will help you, then be my guest. Go outside often and get fresh air, and take some walks. Be with your friends and do things that will make you forget about this sadness; I went through some of this too. It should help you out to some extent. Don't be afraid to experiment with other things either. Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other perguntas that you may have.
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